How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 16.06.2025 04:39
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
How do you leave a relationship when you are still in love?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Hangs out with loser friends.
What is the best way to get my wife to become a hotwife?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
What are the defining characteristics of woke liberals and conservatives in the United States?
Making more friends is a goal.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
How do you have intercourse with a girl who can remember you for a long time?
Ask yourself:
That's it for today.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Do empaths fall easier for abusive people?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
What I need from you?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Do you think Trump is a bad a$$? Why or why not?
Procrastinates a lot.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Do not set goals—set systems.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Does not procrastinate.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Living to your full potential is a goal.